No Haters please. This is not about anyone one relationship. IT is about all of them.
Can we please have more superhero action and less soap opera drama?
My two cents - too much focus this season on the relationships. If necessary to complete Kara as a character, write a relationship for her and keep the others in the background. Part of the struggle for a hero like Batman is he knows he can never have a normal relationship and most times he is alone in his struggles. If this were "Lois and Clark" - the relationship would be okay I guess because that was the focus of the show. Perry White's wife was (almost)never seen. Jimmy Olsen only had a relationship if it advanced the story/action of the episode when he/they got in trouble. Lois was in and out of relationships that made Clark jealous. Currently in Supergiirl seemingly everyone is in a relationship and it is taking away from the main character and what she can do. If that is what the producers wish to do, then change the name to "Relationships in the DEO" and phase out Kara. I watch the show to see super-heroics not soap opera drama. Hank and Megan/Alex and Maggie are extraneous to Kara's development as a hero. If you are watching The Flash, Joe and his current interest so far have only been there to advance the story of Barry's heroism and leadership. They do not get whole segments of the show because Barry is the focus. Barry and Iris work because he is the hero. In Arrow, Mr. Terrific and Paul advanced the tension and sacrifice/costs of living the life of a hero - and it was well told. Felicity and her cop boyfriend advanced the Prometheus story. The Diggle and his wife story lines also help drive the story while being in the background of the show. All parts there were well written and purposeful but not dominating the show. I have yet to see a Supergirl episode this season that measures up to last year's pilot episode or Red Tornado episode or black mercy episode. This season has been somewhat disappointing when compared to last season. Get the focus back on Kara becoming a hero and defeating the villiains. Leave the soap opera stuff for General Hospital.